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Never Fear The Dream…..

Don’t hold your ideas too superior or too sure. Challenge them. In reflection, some of the last century’s great truths are mocked today as ridiculous and shallow. Just as our thoughts and ideas will be a century hence. As hard as it is to hear, the world doesn’t revolve around you, regardless of your self-conceived worth. And yet, each of us has a part in how the world unfolds.  25.11

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Victims Are Not Villains

Fiction portrays superheroes battling archetypal villains—Superman vs. Lex Luthor and General Zod, Batman vs. The Joker and Two-Face, and Buzz Lightyear vs. Emperor Zurg. But in reality, self-proclaimed “heroes” often manufacture enemies from vulnerable populations to justify their pursuit of personal power.

Throughout history, authoritarians and dictators have vilified specific groups to establish themselves as saviors: Pol Pot (Cambodia) targeted intellectuals and professionals to impose his radical agrarian vision, Saddam Hussein (Iraq) persecuted Kurds as part of a broader political and ethnic conflict, Idi Amin (Uganda) expelled Asians and Indians to consolidate power, Mao Zedong (China) targeted the wealthy and educated in his Cultural Revolution, and Joseph Stalin (Soviet Union) engineered famines and imprisoned political opponents to maintain control. Adolf Hitler (Germany) vilified and massacred Jewish people, while his protege Benito Mussolini (Italy) targeted ethnic minorities to strengthen his nationalist image. Benjamin Netanyahu (Israel) is in a genocidal quest against Palestinians. Vladimir Putin (Russia) has used both Chechen insurgents and Ukrainians as political scapegoats to justify military aggression and solidify power. Meanwhile, his United States counterpart, and admirer, has been scapegoating minorities and immigrants and demanding the persecution of political opponents to consolidate support.

These leaders rely on lies, unchecked narratives, and twisted pseudo-facts to sway the public and position themselves as national saviors. Repeating falsehoods and distorting facts, they endeavor to create the illusion that only THEY can protect society from fabricated threats.

Authentic leadership doesn’t create chaos to demonstrate value—it brings calm to existing turmoil. History ultimately judges these “saviors” as humanity’s supervillains, while vindicating their victims.

We don’t need self-proclaimed heroes dividing us against each other, and we don’t need someone victimizing groups to feel powerful. Today’s “villain” could be YOU tomorrow. When someone claims they alone can “save” society, their motivation is often self-interest, not public welfare. Progress comes through finding common ground and embracing differences, not through polarization and isolation. We are stronger united than divided by those who would name themselves our protectors.

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Never Fear The Dream…..

Progress, unlike decline, is slow and arduous. It takes a lot to continue the effort when so few gains or rewards are experienced. No one achieved anything worthwhile in a single act but in the accumulation of constant mundane effort in their pursuit. Decline is easy and natural. Our bodies wither without exercising, and our minds atrophy from lack of challenge if we all live with familiar ideas and concepts. The decline is a steep slope most cannot recover from without even more effort. Constant challenge, even if upsetting, is a better alternative. Your body needs exercise, and your mind wants to wander, explore, and make connections; let it.  25.10

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Posted in Current Events

Systematic Suppression and Decimation of the LGBTQ Community

Systematic suppression is the intentional and structured ways in which specific marginalized communities are denied rights, opportunities, and resources, leading to their disenfranchisement and inequality with the intent of rendering them non-existent. We have a front-row seat to watch many acts of suppression, from voting rights, immigration, women’s rights, and self-determination. Unconscionable as it might be, we watch acts of suppression accelerate daily. But what is even more concerning is America’s silent crisis—the systematic marginalization and decimation of our LGBTQ community, a pressing issue that demands our immediate and unwavering attention.

You don’t have to engage in direct violence to cause harm to a community. The deliberate restriction of social, legal, and support structures can inflict pain, suffering, and even death to suppress a group. Like enabling discriminatory organizations, you don’t have to be directly involved. Quietly supporting or endorsing legislative intolerance and withholding services can be just as damaging. This community only wants to live with the same protections and rights that all of us should have and expect.

Throughout history, various institutions and organizations have used a cornucopia of justifications to discriminate against minority groups. We are witness to similar patterns in the treatment of the LGBTQ community, where personal beliefs are being used to justify discrimination and denial of fundamental rights.

You may not agree with or approve of the LGBTQ community’s identity or lifestyle. It might even be repulsive, and it’s your right to have those perspectives. But that doesn’t give anyone the authority or right to work toward their marginalization, neglect, and exclusion. There are many more pressing issues to deal with. But, we are easily distracted and misdirected, so we target minorities and create issues where they aren’t. Unfortunately, we are all a part of some minority which might be the next target. You can try to soften it, call it something else, or close your eyes, but there is a fine line between decimation and genocide. This is America’s silent crisis, our silent genocide. It is the systematic suppression of a community within our community, and people are suffering because of it. People’s social structures, personal rights, and medical options are being destroyed and restricted only because some have taken it upon themselves to impose their personal views on others. While currently, the acts of physical violence may be isolated they still exist and are horrible. In addition, people are still being harmed through isolation, discrimination, and denial of fundamental rights. The youth within this community is 4.3 times more likely to attempt suicide than there straight friends. A quarter of this community has tried to kill themselves as compared to 6% of heterosexuals. This group is not just part of our community; they are individuals with hopes, dreams, and rights. These are people and they are being pushed to the brink. These are your neighbors, and amongst many things they are parents, clergy, first responders, care-givers, spiritual leader, legislators, educators, business owners, engineers, artists, authors, farmers, students, industry leaders, and on and on. This group isn’t the enemy. It is an integral thread of our lives tapestry and a critical part of our future. This community should not be silenced or erased, and efforts to do so should not be tolerated or excused. Let people live their lives; maybe everyone will let you live yours with the same dignity and respect.

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This was first published in the Bend Bulletin 3/5/25

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Never Fear The Dream…..

We see, assess, and evaluate through the corrective lens of our teachings and experiences. We do this unconsciously without regard for or appreciation of different perspectives. But yet, trying to understand the perspectives of others is paramount in a functioning society. The world isn’t just how you or I see it. It is a beautiful mix of colors, angles, shadows, and fractured scenes, all blending into our perspective. We should appreciate and learn from other ideas and concepts as they add to the richness of our understanding. If you lived only in and understood an additive world, the ideas of subtraction would violate every pretext of existence, yet 6+4=14-4. Obstacles always arise; rise to their challenge. Don’t let perception be the obstacle that blinds you to a broader understanding.   25.09

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Never Fear The Dream…

The fears created by your imagination are more insidious than reality. Don’t run from your fears; chase them. Your mind, especially a fatigued mind, can make your anxieties into terrible monsters. Monsters that rage within you and hold you in fear’s death grip. Rather than succumb to them, turn and face them. Turning your anxiety into a strength and every challenge an opportunity. 25.081

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Never Fear The Dream…

When you look through a glass window, do you look for your reflection or yearn to view the world? You are part of both views, but make one your focus. Those vain and self-centered will focus on their reflection, regardless of its distortion. Others will see but not focus on their vision but will strive to see the world they are part of. They know no one knows everything but that everyone knows something. It is the accumulated knowledge that pushes us forward. Never forget— you can learn something from everyone, and they can from you. 25.08

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Never Fear The Dream…

If all you’ve ever known is privilege, you believe in your superiority and resist efforts for equality and balance. If all you’ve ever known is oppression, then you believe in your right to resist. If the privileged sense a loss of inherited rights, they are incensed. If the oppressed gain any new rights, they feel empowered to grasp for more. And so, the power pendulum swings synchronized with misunderstanding and mistrust. At some point, the pendulum must reach a point of stasis, lest we are forever trapped in senseless struggles. 25:07

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Never Fear The Dream…

The power of silence must not be underestimated. We spend years learning to speak but never take a single lesson in hearing. Devoid of listening, we rob ourselves of the opportunity to understand others and learn about ourselves. The power of silence is almost limitless. It can confound, frustrate, and create illuminating moments. Rather than formulating your answer while someone talks, try to listen. What you discover might be life-changing. Learn when to use your voice and when not to, but silence and inaction in the face of tyranny and atrocities is cowardice. 25.06

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Never Fear The Dream…..

Hire indiscriminately, promote and terminate on merit; not on project bias. The hardest projects require the best, you reward their effort not the results. Revenge and retribution, like arrogance and pomposity are not leadership skills. 25.051

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