Category: Philosophy

There is a significant difference between, ‘taking a knee’, and raising a clinched fist…..

Fifteen years ago we, collectively and individually, took a knee to pray, in our own way, for those we lost, their families, the country, and the world.  We raised our flag and our heads showing the world, and ourselves, we were united and strong.

Fifteen years later, where’s the Spirit of 9/12?  Our politicians, “leaders”, and the media have artfully categorized and sub-categorized us, driven wedges between us, all for their benefit; not ours.  With their help and guidance, we slide down the slippery slope of judging all by the actions of a small few.  We no longer seek common ground, only ground to defend.

Our country was founded and is strengthened by our diversity.   Our diversity allows us to accept and grow uniquely in the world.  We should, readily and openly, acknowledge the problems and injustices which exist.  Not to let them define who we are; but, to use them and solve them. Strengthen our resolve to become better individuals and a better nation.  Be responsible and accountable for your actions and reactions. Do not let circumstances or others dictate your response.

We watch people today taking a knee to acknowledge and highlight injustice and their hope for tomorrow; but, a knee is a lot better than a rock.  Remember, fifteen years ago we all took a knee.  Judge less, accept and respect more. Consider; you might be in the minority and yet, you still want your voice heard and your position understood. Our future is as bright as we allow it to be; because, we are stronger together than divided.  We showed that fifteen years ago…

Let the Spirit of 9/12 be our guide, and Never Forget….

Never Fear the Dream…….

I watched a storm chase across the high desert valley. It slowly covered the horizon, filled the sky, blanketing every butte.  An unstable air system had blown over the region. Drizzling, grey, overcast sky, with periodic piercing brilliant sunbeams, had replaced the bright clear sky of only hours ago.  And the rain, passing through the scattered sunbeams, trying to refresh the parched soil, cleansing, and healing.  I know there’s a rainbow somewhere; but where?

An unstable system is enveloping all of us, seemingly out of our control.  We are witnessing unthinkable, unacceptable, events near and far.  The evil heads of fear, intolerance, and ignorance have further destabilized an already unstable system. Throwing us all into a state of seemingly uncontrolled chaos and dispair.  And the tears; freely, uncontrollably, flowing, trying to cleanse and heal.  So many do care, where once it was only a few.  There is hope.  Is this the rainbow?

Strange thing about rainbows; as long as there is sun and rain then one exists.  Like courage, as long as you don’t lose it, there is hope. If you don’t see a rainbow, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist; so don’t lose hope.  Embrace every opportunity to seize control of all you can control; starting with yourself.  You want to see the rainbow? Find the right alignment.  Have the courage embrace the challenge to change your orientation and start changing the world around you.  Don’t leave it to someone else, and know you don’t stand alone.

Never Fear the Dream

Over the last few days, we Americans, have recognized two important dates.  The first we all remember because we get the day off from work and get to play.  The other probably went by without too much fanfare.  Both recognize the valor of those who paid the ultimate price, or were willing to do so; and by grace didn’t.  But, what about the others?

The others; the parents, spouses, children, friends, and survivors; will we remember them?  We are a free country because of those who were willing sacrifice.  Those who were left behind had to pick up their lives and move on.  They too should be remembered.  The pain and suffering of their loss and the scars left by war carried on in them long after the guns were silenced.  They built businesses, homes, families, communities,  and all the while carrying the hidden scars of war in their hearts.

They’ve never asked to be remembered or honored, but they are and have been the fabric and foundation of who we are today.  As we remember Memorial Day and D-Day, let’s also take a little time to remember those survivors.  The ones left behind who built a country.

A strange thing happens when you move.  Your entire life’s belongings are sorted, wrapped, and packed….in boxes.  Amazing how insignificant all those cherished things seem to be when all cubed up, tightly wrapped in brown paper, cardboard, and tape.  You can put anything in a box.  Somethings go together and somethings are a disjointed conglomerate, unrelated and precious; and yet still stuffed in a box.

You can put anything in a box.  How often have people put you in a box?  How many times have you put someone there?  How many times have you put yourself in one, just to feel safe?  Life is neater when everything, and everyone, fits in a box.  Especially, if the box is of your making.  Simple, clean, orderly, tightly wrapped and tapped; everyone and everything fits.

An interesting thing about boxes; you’re not really going to know what’s in them until they’re opened. Sorta like Christmas, only the wrapping isn’t quite as festive.  Every box is an adventure of discovery.  Every piece of wrapping paper unveils special items and memories.  Finding just the right place to proudly display the cherished item is the rest of the fun.

And so it is with us.  Unwrapping and escaping our box; or, better yet, opening someone else’s box and letting their uniqueness be proudly shown for all the world to enjoy.  Resist the efforts of those who would put you in any box.  But more important; resist, with even more energy,  your inclination to box anyone else, lest you be boxed along with them.

Now…back to the boxes; a Memorial Day Christmas; ironically appropriate time to remember and find those lost treasures.

Never Fear the Dream…..

All of us can look back and remember someone who has unselfishly helped us get to where we are today.  Nature routinely gives us the best images of how we probably should be living our lives.

For those of you in your twilight years, know you still have an amazing amount to give and share.  Some of you will feed the souls and minds of future generations well after you are gone.

For those of you in your dawning years, seek out those who can and will mentor.  Be patient, respectful and gracious; if you’re willing you will benefit immensely.

The symbiotic relationship is rewarding and essential for our global society to continue to exist and flourish.  Just as it is in nature…..

Never Fear the Dream

Roaming through the house with my little jar of spackle looking for holes to fill.  All the rooms packed up and now trying to remember what picture or memento was there just a few days or even hours ago.  Small holes, big holes each needing its own personal dab of spackle and then touch of paint to be lost amidst the grandeur of the wall, fixed and forgotten.  But the slight blemish still there for the discerning eye, no matter how good the repair or how grand the wall might be.

How often do we move through life making holes, small ones and big ones, and never consider going back to repair each one of them?  Sometimes forgetting we made a hole.  Sometimes not even knowing we did.  And when we recognize the hole was made, trying as hard as we can to remember why we made it.  What was so important for us to make the hole in the first place?  As we look back, while repairing the impact, maybe we should have been looking forward, pondering if this is a hole we’ll have to repair.  What if we don’t? What if we can’t? All the while knowing, if we make the hole it can never, ever, be fully repaired; always, forever a blemish.

Not trying to erase memories or fade into the greater landscape of mankind; but, trying to think about the holes we have made as well as those we have.  Some which need to be filled, some which we want to fill; and knowing there is a difference.

Hmm, this is a rather large hole, wonder what was hung here; hope it was worth it.  Spackle and paint…spackle and paint…

Never Fear the Dream….