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Never Fear The Dream…

You don’t need to imagine it; within you is the truth. Set yourself free. 26.05.02

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Never Fear The Dream…

Growth Through Strain…

Growth is more profound in the presence of provocation and discomfort. In tranquility, the body, mind, and soul remain docile—they are exercised and strengthened through strife. 26.05.01

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Assumptions Are Exhausting

Assumptions are exhausting because they require us to use energy on things we don’t really understand. They are those quiet, baseless conclusions we form from observation, experience, memory, and perception — often with less evidence than we’d like to admit. They may seem helpful or even protective, but more often they distort reality and hinder our ability to think and live clearly.

It helps to pause now and then to examine them. Many of our assumptions persist not because they are true, but because they are comfortable. They fit our preferred storyline. That’s why their challenge is uncomfortable. Our experiences shape us, from which, we build expectations about people, outcomes, and motives. But assumptions usually are about others’ intentions and actions. When we presume we understand someone else without understanding what shaped them, we set ourselves up for frustration, disappointment, needless conflict, and likely failure.

Assumptions are false knowledge which drain us as they give a false sense of preparedness. We rehearse a likely reaction, expect a certain outcome, and convince ourselves we know what will happen. Then life surprises us, and we must put in even more mental and emotional effort to adjust to what we never truly saw coming. The expense of recovering from false certainty is typically greater than the effort required to honestly assess uncertainty from the outset.

We live this out every day in small ways. That moment of surprise—’I didn’t see that coming’—is often when our assumption fell apart. Surprise is unavoidable, but unnecessary disappointment is not. The more we question our assumptions, the more flexible, calm, and clear-headed we become.

Recognize and avoid arrogant certainty. Question your perceptions. Reevaluate your beliefs and risks. Expect others to be more complicated. Plan for life to turn out differently than you expect. You might not avoid every surprise, but you can avoid falling for the exhausting illusion of assumptions false knowledge.  NeverFearTheDream   simplebender.com

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Never Fear The Dream

We often demand transparency from others yet rarely demand it of ourselves. Personal growth will always be hindered without honest self-reflection and transparency—don’t lie to yourself. 26.04.01

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You honor your cause, even a lost cause, by ardently defending it with integrity. You dishonor and cheapen it when resorting to threats, intimidation, extortion, or extradition. 26.03.08

Posted in Communication

Patriotic Treason

True Patriots Can Not be Silenced…No Silence, No Fear

In this 250th-anniversary year, the FCC, through its “Pledge America Campaign,” is encouraging broadcasters to air more “patriotic, pro-America,” “positive,” “uplifting” non-critical programming celebrating our national story. On its face, it sounds harmless, even unifying. No one says criticism is forbidden in this campaign. Still, when a regulatory agency that controls broadcast licenses asks for “pro-American” and “uplifting” messaging, the subtext seems clear—celebrate, don’t scrutinize. But it raises an uncomfortable question: isn’t one of America’s greatest strengths the freedom to question our myths, challenge our institutions, and resist messaging that feels more like image management than truth-telling?

A healthy nation should not fear scrutiny; it should welcome it. We do not grow weaker by examining our history from multiple angles. We grow wiser. We stand taller when we are willing to look not only at the victors’ triumphs, but also at the suffering of the defeated, the excluded, and the conveniently forgotten.

Patriotism that cannot tolerate criticism is not confidence; it is insecurity dressed up as ceremony.

We should be honest about what troubles many Americans today. When institutions redact, conceal, and protect the powerful while exposing the vulnerable, we should call it what it is: a cover-up. When the history of slavery is sanitized, minimized, or rewritten, that is not a nation maturing—it is a nation lying to itself. And when a country suppresses the weak and demeans others for gain, it is not ascending. It is declining.

When citizens see voting access narrowed in some places, districts drawn to protect power rather than represent people, and public narratives shaped to flatter rather than inform, they do not feel united. They feel managed—manipulated. They begin to doubt the message’s legitimacy, no matter how many flags are wrapped around it.

Still, this is not a voice against patriotism. It is a voice for a broader form of it.

We should be proud that many people in this country still protest peacefully, speak openly, and challenge policies they believe are unjust. That tradition is not a flaw in America; it is one of the few things that has consistently made America worth admiring. Our best moments have not come from silence or obedience. They have come when ordinary people insisted that the country live up to its own promises and that power be held legally accountable.

That is not treason. That is citizenship. That is patriotism.

Treason is not dissent. Treason is the quiet surrender of conscience—the nodding along to cover-ups, cruelty, and convenient historical rewriting because it feels safer or easier. Patriotism is not taking your hat off on cue, reciting the Pledge by rote, or consuming approved “pro-American” programming and songs. Patriotism is telling the truth about who we are and who we have been. Real patriotism is hard. It asks us to love the country enough to tell it the truth.

And truth includes this: we have made mistakes, some of them grave. We are not diminished by admitting it. We are diminished by pretending otherwise. A nation grows stronger when it knows its history fully, speaks honestly about its failures, and chooses, again and again, to do better. We become stronger still when we can say, without fear or excuse, that we’ve been wrong, but we’ll be better.         NeverFearTheDream   simplebender.com

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Federal Communications Commission. “Chairman Carr Announces Pledge America Campaign.” Federal Communications Commission, 20 Feb. 2026, docs.fcc.gov/public/attachments/DOC-418890A1.pdf


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A form of this article was first published on 3/10/26 in the Bend Bulletin

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We are trained to be distracted, entertained, and constantly active—and in this busyness, we often miss the wonder of life’s small moments. Make time for stillness and grow in its presence. 26.03.02

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Choice, Chance, Change

It’s easy to fall into a routine—a pattern, a path, a simple rut. After a while, it can feel like being a snake in a wagon-track after rain: pressed into the groove, unable to see a clean way out. Stuck. Destined to follow the track wherever it leads.

But remember, you helped get yourself into it, and you can help get yourself out. The way out begins with choice, then a chance, then change. Even when a situation feels unsolvable or risky, you can still act—if only to begin the process. Yes, many parts of life are socially or professionally controlled. Even inside those boundaries, there are choices—subtle ones, small ones, but choices, nonetheless. The point is to exercise them.

Every choice has consequences. That is not a reason to freeze; it is a reason to brace. The choices and chances do not have to be big, bodacious gestures. Small, incremental shifts can be deeply significant. Change often starts there: deciding you want it, choosing toward it, and accepting the chance that comes with each step.

You don’t have to wait for a grand opening, a sign, or even the perfect plan. You need to make a choice and follow through — today. Even a small pivot can change your life’s course. Many of us like the phrase  ‘turning over a new leaf’ because it is clean and peaceful. In practice, it is usually more complicated than the phrase suggests—longer-term, sometimes riskier. Still, the principle holds: be willing to turn the leaf and look for something new. Yes, there may be thorns. That comes with reaching. Sometimes the only way to discover is to try.

And if you think you’ve already turned every leaf in your effort to change, wait for spring. There will be a whole forest again—even the trees in your own yard will leaf out—offering a fresh crop of leaves to turn; nature is annoyingly generous that way. Take a deep breath and just start turning.  NeverFearTheDream     simplebender.com

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Never Fear The Dream…

Love and compassion shouldn’t be transactional events. You either love and care, or you don’t, and you’re in a negotiation. 26.03.01

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Never Fear The Dream…

Self-deception is self-deprivation—denying yourself the truth denies you growth. 26.02.08


Lap Around the Sun: Daily Steps Forward
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