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Never Fear The Dream…

The fears created by your imagination are more insidious than reality. Don’t run from your fears; chase them. Your mind, especially a fatigued mind, can make your anxieties into terrible monsters. Monsters that rage within you and hold you in fear’s death grip. Rather than succumb to them, turn and face them. Turning your anxiety into a strength and every challenge an opportunity. 25.081

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Never Fear The Dream…

When you look through a glass window, do you look for your reflection or yearn to view the world? You are part of both views, but make one your focus. Those vain and self-centered will focus on their reflection, regardless of its distortion. Others will see but not focus on their vision but will strive to see the world they are part of. They know no one knows everything but that everyone knows something. It is the accumulated knowledge that pushes us forward. Never forget— you can learn something from everyone, and they can from you. 25.08

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Never Fear The Dream…

If all you’ve ever known is privilege, you believe in your superiority and resist efforts for equality and balance. If all you’ve ever known is oppression, then you believe in your right to resist. If the privileged sense a loss of inherited rights, they are incensed. If the oppressed gain any new rights, they feel empowered to grasp for more. And so, the power pendulum swings synchronized with misunderstanding and mistrust. At some point, the pendulum must reach a point of stasis, lest we are forever trapped in senseless struggles. 25:07

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Never Fear The Dream…

The power of silence must not be underestimated. We spend years learning to speak but never take a single lesson in hearing. Devoid of listening, we rob ourselves of the opportunity to understand others and learn about ourselves. The power of silence is almost limitless. It can confound, frustrate, and create illuminating moments. Rather than formulating your answer while someone talks, try to listen. What you discover might be life-changing. Learn when to use your voice and when not to, but silence and inaction in the face of tyranny and atrocities is cowardice. 25.06

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Never Fear The Dream…..

Hire indiscriminately, promote and terminate on merit; not on project bias. The hardest projects require the best, you reward their effort not the results. Revenge and retribution, like arrogance and pomposity are not leadership skills. 25.051

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Beyond Tokenism, Tribalism, and Wokeism

The issues and consternation we face with Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Accessibility aren’t new. Humanity is predisposed to tribalism and discrimination. We like to be around those who are like us….whether race, gender, creed, hobby, or sports team. This country has had an issue with DEIA from its start. The idea that someone gets something to fill a quota rather than being the most qualified just isn’t American.

We stand on a merit-based system. As a country, we have struggled with DEIA laws thrust upon us since post-Civil War reconstruction and especially since the Civil Rights Act of 1964. We reject the concept of merit and privilege being replaced with legislation trying to eliminate discrimination because the result is systematic alienization and reverse discrimination.

Diversity is not just a preference; it’s a necessity in business, sports, education, social interaction, and life. The ideas, experiences, prowess, and insights of other nationalities, races, genders, and creeds enrich our lives and country. It’s a vibrant aspect of our nation—a nation of immigrants.

Equity is not equality. It’s about ensuring everyone is on an equal footing. The privileged should not be treated any better or worse than the impoverished, and the rich should not have any more access to political officials than the hoi polloi. The challenge is: How can you ensure equity when the playing field has never been level? None of us start with the same privileges or handicaps. Treating everyone equally only perpetuates and extends inequities. And if you believe the education system and/or medical care in this country is equal for all, you’ll struggle to understand any of this.

We stand on a merit-based system. We reject the idea of nepotism and ‘pay to play’ influence. Right? Yet, we all know the person who got the job because their parent knew someone, had money, or owned the company. We stand on merit, right? I understand the frustration with DEI. I was once told I would hire a specific person for an open, publicly posted position. The job description was unambiguous. Looking at the resume, the new hire didn’t appear to be a good match, but that didn’t matter. Quickly checking my DEI card, I recognized there was, in fact, justification for the hire, regardless of qualification. The new employee was part of an exclusive minority. With a little extra time, patience, and training, the company finally had a good employee. The child of a sitting U.S. Senator allowed us to check a box and have an amazingly unique perspective at break time. Merit didn’t matter then; to some, it doesn’t matter now. Of course, the good-ole-boy, nepotistic system was always so much better in so many ways, right?

Remember that DEI never intended to mean ‘Don’t Ever Integrate.’ It was meant to be a way to give opportunities to all people, not just those with connections. Is the current direction and directives about merit or returning to our country’s quasi-legal racial segregation state? As cop killers and killing cops are pardoned, the answer may already be self-evident. Courage and Be Bold   

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This was first printed in the Bend Bulletin 1/30/25 titled: Measuring merit and diversity